This, this, a thousand times this article. Sooner or later I’ll get ’round to writing a more intelligent take on it, but for now I can do is cry “this” because I get it.
In it, Jake the dog explains “some junk about dating”: “Right now, you’re at tier 1, which is hugging, but pretty soon you’ll be at tier 2, which is smooching. Then–”
Incidentally, “junk” was a good choice of words there, because this paradigm represents a set of norms that should be thrown out.
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